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Yep, Clare Crawley dodged a bullet. Several bullets! On the March 10 season 18 finale of "The Bachelor," Juan Pablo Galavis passed on Crawley, 32, in favor of pediatric nurse Nikki Ferrell -- although the not-so-charming former soccer stud declined to propose to Ferrell, 26, or even tell her "I love you."

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"I would never want my children having a father like you," hairstylist Crawley fumed at Galavis, 32, after he delivered his verdict. Where did it all go wrong for the pair? Two words: Helicopter date. During Juan and Clare's final one-on-one, they soared in a helicopter above St. Lucia. In a confessional, Clare explained that Juan whispered something in her ear.

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"I'm shocked," Clare later says. "He chose to tell me something that no woman wants to hear. That he doesn't know me and some sexual thing I don't want to repeat. It was insulting and it was offensive."

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So, ahem, what did he say?! "He said, 'I love [expletive] you but I don't know you,'" a source confirms to Us Weekly.

"She's totally over him," the source continues. "She is done with him and relieved that they are not together."


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