If Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal have any more good, clean fun together, they're going to get sucked into a Norman Rockwell painting. Their wholesome courtship has included apple-picking and trips to the farmer's market. Now, we can add digit-touching and ice cream licking to their G-rated wooing. Us Weekly reports the confessional chart-topper, 20, and the dreamy-eyed actor, 29, were spotted over the weekend holding hands and cuddling poolside at the Post Ranch Inn at Big Sur, Calif. "Taylor laughed at everything Jake said," says a spy. On Monday, they explored the frozen-treat scene in Santa Barbara. "They looked at all the flavors and couldn't decide, so they asked the counter girls for help," says a staffer at McConnell's ice cream shop, who adds that they were "happy," "friendly," and "smiled a ton," even when approached by picture-seeking fans. And because you can't live without this knowledge, Jake ordered Swiss chocolate chip, while Taylor opted for yogurt with rainbow sprinkles (of course). Meanwhile, LaineyGossip says a beret-wearing Swift got touchy with Gyllenhaal's hair in between some arm-entwining.