"Suddenly I'm supposed to think about myself first? What is that? That's weird. But there's joy in that too -- we're responsible for our own happiness. It's not about them making me happy. You know, the best sound in the world to me is the door opening in the apartment and one of the kids walking in. That won't change. I mean, I'm very happy when Kevin comes home too, don't get me wrong. But they light up my life."