BDAY LOVE

Bravo star reflects on 200 pound weight loss: Before-and-after pics

"Million Dollar Listing: New York" star Tyler Whitman's rock bottom moment is burned into his brain. He was at a Phish concert in December 2015 and he suddenly felt faint and nearly passed out while dancing. 

He weighed over 300 pounds. 

Gregory Pace/Shutterstock

While sitting next to his best friend "sobbing" and "humiliated," Tyler decided to drastically change his lifestyle. Within a year, he shed 200 pounds

"That year, I had hit rock bottom. It was the culmination of a lifetime of diets and the resulting shame when they didn't work. I was a successful real estate agent who was too ashamed to see my clients in person anymore," he wrote in an essay for today.com. "I took a management position so I could train other agents instead, and my clients wouldn't see how big I had gotten. But I was embarrassed even in a training position: I didn't look like I had my life together or like someone these agents would aspire to become."

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo_1886hj3U/

His weight, at the time, dictated his life.  

"So many of my actions when I was overweight were motivated by the thoughts in my head," he wrote. "I felt like I had to make up for being overweight by putting on a show. My inner story was, 'I know I'm fat, but I promise I'm awesome — let me put on this performance for you.' The funny-guy schtick was exhausting and it made it hard for people to connect with me. I thought I was destined for a sad and lonely life."

The reality TV star said he tried every diet out there. In the end, he had gastric sleeve weight loss surgery. Between the surgery, regular exercise and a healthy diet, Tyler has kept the weight off.  

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6TJCMVFH-U/

"Once I lost the weight, things changed for me. Suddenly, people who never paid attention to me before did. The attention came from everywhere," he said. "It made me nervous, and it made me angry, too. I couldn't help thinking, "You a******* never gave a crap about me when I was fat."

Tyler admits he turned to alcohol and developed a problem. Soon, though, he got ahold of his life and has been sober for over a year and a half. 

"The alcohol cravings are gone," he said. "The food ones are not."

Tyler now logs all of his food to keep himself accountable.  

https://www.instagram.com/p/CD-LxoEFTgZ/

"You know those before-and-after photos of people who have lost a lot of weight? Instead of before and after, I prefer to say past and present — because it's not as though the work is done," he wrote. "This transformation is something I have to show up for and do work for every day." 

BDAY LOVE

Cops called after 'Home Alone' star involved in alleged DV incident

"Home Alone" star Devin Ratray was allegedly involved in a domestic incident with his girlfriend at an Oklahoma hotel that prompted a police response.

Devin, who played Buzz McCallister in the beloved movie, allegedly got physical with his girlfriend during the argument, strangling her and putting his hand over her mouth, she told police, according to TMZ.

Twentieth Century Fox/Photofest

In her police report, she says she bit Devin's hand while he used it to cover her face. He then allegedly punched her before she retreated to a stairwell. The girlfriend then retrieved her belongings, called police and waited for them to arrive. 

No arrests were made and she got a separate hotel room.

The actor's rep said Devin and his girlfriend got into an argument while at a Hyatt near downtown Oklahoma City but insisted things didn't get physical. 

The duo has split up since the incident. 

Invision/AP/Shutterstock

In "Home Alone," Devin's character tormented little bother Kevin, who was played by Macaulay Culkin.

There has been buzz — no pun intended — about a "Home Alone" reunion, but nothing is concrete. Whether this incident changes things is unknown. 

BDAY LOVE

Megan Thee Stallion just got her degree, plus more stars who went to college after becoming famous

BDAY LOVE

'Jerry Maguire' 25th anniversary: Where are they now?

BDAY LOVE

'West Side Story' Spielberg remake bombs at the box office: Find out what happened to the stars of the 1961 original

BDAY LOVE

Another Duggar is in trouble with the law, plus more celeb news ICYMI

BDAY LOVE

ICYMI: 'Power Rangers' starlet rocks dangerous dress with loincloth-style skirt, more fashion hits and misses from the 2021 People's Choice Awards

BDAY LOVE

Tim McGraw and Faith Hill clean up nice for their new Western series premiere, plus more celeb photos from Dec. 6-11

BDAY LOVE

Celebrate Rita Moreno's 90th birthday with a look at her life and career in photos

BDAY LOVE

Iconic 'Real Housewives' star reveals she's seeing someone new, plus more celeb love news

BDAY LOVE

Tom Holland could soon be done with acting, plus more celeb news

BDAY LOVE

'The Unforgivable' debuts on Netflix: Sandra Bullock's life and career in photos

BDAY LOVE

Megan Thee Stallion graduates from Texas Southern University: Find out where your favorite stars went to college

BDAY LOVE

'Ocean's Eleven' turns 20: The all-time greatest heist movies

BDAY LOVE

'Hook' 30th anniversary: See who's played Captain Hook over the decades

BDAY LOVE

ICYMI: Michael Jackson's daughter stuns in brown gown with hip-high slit, more stars on the 2021 PCAs red carpet

BDAY LOVE

How Adele is reportedly set to make $2M a day, plus more celeb news

BDAY LOVE

'West Side Story' star and EGOT winner and more celebs turning 90 in 2021

BDAY LOVE

Marie Osmond has a new album: See her life and career in photos

BDAY LOVE

Another Duggar in trouble with the law for allegedly endangering minor

The hits keep coming for the Duggar family. 

TMZ reported on Dec. 10 that Jana Duggar, the eldest daughter of the reality TV family, was recently charged with endangering the welfare of a minor, but the incident went largely under the radar. 

Jana Duggar/Instagram

The circumstances surrounding the charge are still unknown, but a court clerk confirmed that Jana was cited on Sept. 9, 2021. She's due in court next month. 

The report of Jana's legal situation comes just one day after an Arkansas jury found her brother Josh Duggar guilty of two charges of receiving and possessing child sexual abuse material.

Josh was immediately taken into custody. He will be sentenced at a later date, but he faces up to 40 years in prison. 

Washington County Sheriff's Office

The former "19 Kids and Counting" star Josh Duggar was arrested by federal agents on April 29 (just a few days after his wife, Anna, announced her seventh pregnancy) for possession of child pornography. The disgraced reality TV star allegedly possessed material which depicted the sexual abuse of children under the age of 12, KNWA reported. 

In court testimony, a Homeland Security agent said the amount of child pornography allegedly recovered from Josh's property is "in the top five of the worst of the worst that I've ever had to examine."

@annaduggar/Instagram

After Josh's conviction, his parents, Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar, said in a statement, "This entire ordeal has been very grievous. Today, God's grace, through the love and prayers of so many, have sustained us. Our hearts and prayers are with anyone who has ever been harmed through CSAM [Child Sexual Abuse Material]."

They continued, "In the days ahead, we will do all we can to surround our daughter-in-law Anna and their children with love and support. As parents, we will never stop praying for Joshua, and loving him, as we do all of our children. In each of life's circumstances, we place our trust in God. He is our source of strength and refuge. Thank you for your prayers."

Josh's team says he plans to appeal the conviction.

BDAY LOVE

Kim Kardashian files to be legally single, despite Ye's pleas to reconcile

Kim Kardashian's life is headed in a new direction, as she's reportedly filed court documents to become legally single and shed her married name of "West."

The filing comes less than a day after Kanye West, who legally goes by the name Ye, publicly pleaded with her for a reconciliation during a concert.

Matt Baron/Shutterstock

In the docs, obtained by TMZ, Kim is asking a judge to declare her single while she and Ye continue to work out custody and property issues. The filing is quite common with high-profile divorces. It also signifies that Kim is ready to officially move on from her third marriage.

The timing is interesting. Kim attended her ex's concert in Los Angeles on Dec. 9 and heard him freestyle the lyrics to his song "Runaway." At the end of the song he sang, "Run back to me … more specifically, Kimberly."

Since Kim filed for divorce earlier this year, the duo has put up a united front for their four children. TMZ said the former couple is committed to co-parenting and have a custody agreement in place.  

Gregory Pace/Shutterstock

For months, Kanye hasn't hidden his feelings about his marriage. In August, he and Kim even walked hand-in-hand out of a listening party for his "Donda" album, which sparked reconciliation rumors. Last month he said "God" would bring them back together and referred to Kim in an interview as his wife, which she technically is in the eyes of the law. 

The "Keeping Up With The Kardashians" star has seemingly moved on from Ye, as she's been linked to "SNL" funnyman Pete Davidson.

BDAY LOVE

The Monkees' Michael Nesmith remembered: Micky Dolenz, Brian Wilson and more stars mourn the music star

BDAY LOVE

Padma Lakshmi recalls 'mortifying' experience of press outing identify of baby's father

Padma Lakshmi said is was "mortifying" back in 2010 when the press was speculating about the identity of her unborn child's father, especially since she wasn't completely sure who it was. 

Erik Pendzich/Shutterstock

On a new episode of PEOPLE's podcast "Me Becoming Mom," the "Top Chef" host described the media attention as "icky."

"I was sort of between relationships without going into the specifics. It definitely complicated the situation, and as we know, our society is a patriarchal society, so I knew that it was not the ideal way, obviously, to be in the situation I was in," she said. "I was just happy. That stuff was certainly there. It was in the background, it was always like a white noise presence. It certainly was icky when the press started snooping around in various countries — not just America, but in India, England, Australia. At that time, it was splashed all over the newspapers and it was mortifying."

Still, Padma, who welcomed daughter Krishna Thea with Adam Dell, tried to keep things in perspective.

"It was inconsequential because the main event was that I was going to be a mom," she noted. 

Padma, 50, and Adam began dating in 2009. However, she and Adam weren't exclusive, as she was also seeing billionaire Teddy Forstmann.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CV31mHcM4_C/

In her memoir, "Love, Loss and What We Ate," Padma said she didn't know the identity of Krishna's father for months. When she told both men that she was pregnant, Teddy had a visceral reaction.

"I saw his face go white, then beet red," she wrote in the book. "It was as if the room could not contain him, or as if his body could not contain his fury at the information he had just received."

After the paternity test revealed he was not the father, Teddy still offered to raise the child as his own. 

"He wasn't going to leave my side," Padma wrote. "Maybe he didn't know if he could stay in a romantic relationship with me or not. I think neither of us knew what was going to happen but he was resolute in making sure I wasn't alone. He held my hand and he held it very publicly."

BDAY LOVE

Willie Garson's son shares pics from 'And Just Like That' premiere

Willie Garson's son, Nathen Garson, celebrated the premiere of "And Just Like That" with the cast of the show, a moment that had to have been bittersweet.

The premiere of the highly-anticipated sequel to "Sex and the City" came less than three months after Willie, who played the beloved Stanford Blatch, passed away.

Willy Sanjuan/Invision/AP/Shutterstock

"What a wonderful trip and what an amazing time I got to have. Thanks @justlikethatmax for a wonderful time and for inviting me to enjoy the season premiere of And Just Like That! Go check it out on HBOmax," Nathen caption a series of images with Chris Noth, Cynthia Nixon, Kristin Davis and Sarah Jessica Parker.

Willie adopted Nathen back in 2009 when he was 7 years old.

On Sept. 21, the 19-year-old announced on Instagram that his father had died from pancreatic cancer. Prior to that, Willie had not publicly disclosed his illness.

Although Willie was a large part of "Sex and the City," his death is not addressed in the sequel. 

"Nobody's dead," showrunner Michael Patrick King told the New York Times last week. "Because it wasn't charming. And I knew that the audience would know."

In announcing Willie's death on Instagram, he wrote, "I love you so much papa. Rest In Peace and I'm so glad you got to share all your adventures with me and were able to accomplish so much. I'm so proud of you. I will always love you, but I think it's time for you to go on an adventure of your own. You'll always be with me. Love you more than you will ever know and I'm glad you can be at peace now. You always were the toughest and funniest and smartest person I've known. I'm glad you shared you're [sic] love with me. I'll never forget it or lose it."

BDAY LOVE

Gwyneth playfully jabs Kim and Pete, Taylor and Jake in hilarious holiday 'etiquette' video